It has been way too long since I've written a post and some of you may be wondering if I'd abandoned this project altogether. I am sorry! I let life get in the way and change my focus a little bit. Time flies by. But I am still excited about this project and the opportunity to learn and grow that it presents. So, let's get going again and start up with the next fruit - peace.
Peace is a wonderful fruit and an often elusive one. It always seems that there is something to worry about or keep our thoughts/minds in a state of unrest. This is the opposite of peace. The more we strive for peace, the harder it is to attain. A devotion I read recently deals with this very subject and really hit home for me. It is from Jesus Calling by Sarah Young:
"Do not search for security in the world you inhabit. You tend to make mental checklists of things you need to do in order to gain control of your life. If only you could check everything off your list, you could relax and be at peace. But the more you work to accomplish that goal, the more things crop up on your list. The harder you try, the more frustrated you become.
"There is a better way to find security in this life. Instead of scrutinizing your checklist, focus your attention on My Presence with you. This continual contact with Me will keep you in My Peace. Moreover, I will help you sort out what is important and what is not, what needs to be done now and what does not. Fix your eyes not on what is seen (your circumstances), but on what is unseen (My Presence). Isaiah 26:3."
Isaiah 26:3-4 says, "You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in You. Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord, is the Rock eternal." God promises to keep us in peace. Not only that, but "perfect peace." What we need to do is claim it by keeping our minds fixed on the Lord, trusting in Him in all circumstances and remembering at all times that it is the Lord who is our eternal Rock.
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
What does Love look like?
It's been a while since we've posted anything but I found something in a book I'm reading that is good to think about. This is out of order but i'm going back to the subject of Love. Which I guess it's all about love, isn't it?
The following is a quote from "Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control" by Heather Forbes and B.Bryan Post. It's a really good book so far and it's about parenting children with past trauma. That trauma can be a lot of things from minor to major (adoption, frequent moving, abuse, neglect, medical trauma, etc.) but I think this book can be for anyone. Here they talk about loving your child:
"I have found one of the best ways to consider love is to understand that love is what we bring to the space that surrounds us. Love is not possessive or controlling. It simply exists in the present space and time. Any two people are capable of experiencing love at any given moment if they are able to put aside their fears and preconceived notions for what love is supposed to be. Love is being fully present in the moment.
To love a child is merely to be present with her, to not be thinking about work, chores, or the day's duties, but rather to be present, attuned, and in harmony with the child's needs and desires. Not that you will give in to every need, want, or desire, but you will open yourself up with the ability to be present to her without judgement or a need to change her. This is to love a child."
How often do we do this with each of our children? Or our spouses? Or our friends and family? Just think about your day and see how you can take time to be fully present. That means putting aside the stresses and the worries. I've started to be conscience of this as I'm reading this book. I'm also reading "Crazy Love" by Francis Chan. I highly recommend this book to everyone. We are doing it for small group and it has a dvd that goes with it for the group study. It's about the crazy love that God gives to us and what our response to that should be. You can google Francis Chan and find utube videos of him speaking. It's really good.
The challenge here for today is to to conscience of being fully present in the moment. In the end, how we've loved people is what is important, not our to-do list.
Amy
The following is a quote from "Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control" by Heather Forbes and B.Bryan Post. It's a really good book so far and it's about parenting children with past trauma. That trauma can be a lot of things from minor to major (adoption, frequent moving, abuse, neglect, medical trauma, etc.) but I think this book can be for anyone. Here they talk about loving your child:
"I have found one of the best ways to consider love is to understand that love is what we bring to the space that surrounds us. Love is not possessive or controlling. It simply exists in the present space and time. Any two people are capable of experiencing love at any given moment if they are able to put aside their fears and preconceived notions for what love is supposed to be. Love is being fully present in the moment.
To love a child is merely to be present with her, to not be thinking about work, chores, or the day's duties, but rather to be present, attuned, and in harmony with the child's needs and desires. Not that you will give in to every need, want, or desire, but you will open yourself up with the ability to be present to her without judgement or a need to change her. This is to love a child."
How often do we do this with each of our children? Or our spouses? Or our friends and family? Just think about your day and see how you can take time to be fully present. That means putting aside the stresses and the worries. I've started to be conscience of this as I'm reading this book. I'm also reading "Crazy Love" by Francis Chan. I highly recommend this book to everyone. We are doing it for small group and it has a dvd that goes with it for the group study. It's about the crazy love that God gives to us and what our response to that should be. You can google Francis Chan and find utube videos of him speaking. It's really good.
The challenge here for today is to to conscience of being fully present in the moment. In the end, how we've loved people is what is important, not our to-do list.
Amy
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