"Whoever wants to become great must be a servant; the first shall be last and the last shall be first." Also, read Matthew 19:30, 20:1-16, and 20:26-28.
This teaching of Jesus seems to go against our fundamental ideas of fairness and justice. That those who come to Jesus at the end of very bad and immoral lives should be granted the same reward of eternal life with God that others who have been faithful their whole lives receive. We tend to look for punishment, revenge, "justice." But our ideas of these things are informed by our humanity and sinful nature; they depend on our self-centeredness and selfishness. God calls for a different framework. We are all together as one in His kingdom. It's not about me being better than anyone or that type of comparison at all. It is about humility, the attitude of being genuinely happy for the advantages of others without any regard at all for myself. It is the total lack of comparison. This Godly attitude involves seeing others through God's eyes. How hard is this to achieve! Especially when this world, our culture, the hard-to-avoid lens of our sinful nature, all tell us to compare and get all that we "deserve."
Jesus spoke the words in Matthew as a lesson to his disciples as they bickered over their place in heaven and as condemnation of the religious leaders of the day. It is so easy for us now to separate ourselves from people like the Sanhedrin men we read about and the Pharisees and Teachers of the Law who put Jesus to death. We think we are not like them: pious, arrogant, condemned. But there is a real danger of that even today. Many of us have or come close to having the same attitudes. For those of us in the church, it is even more dangerous because we think we know the Scriptures, Jesus, and God. We believe we are doing His will. And many times we are. But if we fail even for a moment to focus totally on Jesus, we may fall into a reliance on our own so-called knowledge and do seemingly good things with bad attitudes, judgment, and arrogance. Isn't this what happened to the Pharisees? They thought and probably truly believed that they were following God's law. They knew the Scriptures and the law handed down by God to Moses. They taught the people that law and followed it to the letter themselves. But their hearts were not in the right place. They followed the "rules" for the sake of those rules and to glorify themselves. How easy it is for us to do the same! It is so easy to revel in the praises of others and the commendations we receive sometimes for doing good instead of humbly glorifying God for any good that has been done and seeing ourselves as the tool and God the one to be praised.
We need to be very careful to keep our focus on Jesus. He must be the center, our purpose and motivation, in all things. For even good things lose value if Jesus is not at the heart of them. This is how we keep our motives pure. In the gospels (such as Mark 14:3-9), the story is told of a woman who poured expensive perfume over Jesus. Those there, presumably including the 12 apostles, rebuked the woman saying that the perfume should have been sold and the money used to feed the poor. Sounds like a good plan, right? Isn't that kind of the way we think of things today? But Jesus disagreed and said that what the woman did was right. It was right because her focus was completely on Jesus and her intent was solely to honor Him. That is the lens through which we should judge our thoughts and actions. The way we see the world matters and the lens we view through matters. We need to see the world the way Jesus does and act accordingly.
Friday, June 25, 2010
Saturday, June 12, 2010
Freedom from Anxiety
As mentioned in another post, peace by definition is the absence of anxiety and worry. We can rid our minds of anxiety by putting things in proper perspective. In Luke 12:22-31, Jesus says:
"...I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear. Life is more than food and the body more than clothes. Consider the ravens: They do not sow or reap, they have no storeroom or barn; yet God feeds them. And how much more valuable you are than birds! Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest? Consider how the lilies grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you, not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, how much more will he clothe you, O you of little faith! And do not set your heart on what you will eat or drink; do not worry about it. For the pagan world runs after all such things, and your Father knows that you need them. But seek his Kingdom and these things will be given to you as well."
God cares about us and will meet our needs. Period. We need to truly believe this and free our minds to focus on Him instead of these little things. I like how he says "do not set your heart" on these things. I think that is really the key. Our hearts are meant to be set on Jesus and nothing else. It is a scary position to be in sometimes. In a way, we are hardwired to focus on things like food, clothing, and other basic needs for this world/life. But God commands us to leave those things in His able hands so that we can focus on Him. When we do this, when we make this conscious decision to change our perspective and our focus, He will fill our hearts and minds with peace. That peace that we all desire, that is beyond our understanding.
This decision, I believe, is a daily one. Even one that must be made moment by moment. Like I said, we are hardwired to worry about certain things and must be very conscious in our efforts to push those thoughts aside and replace them with thoughts of Jesus. Perhaps memorizing this passage, or even one verse of it, will help. When thoughts of worry and fear come, recite this passage until the worry and fear are pushed out. Pray to God for help, but do not focus the words of your prayer on your worry or fear. That only gives that worry and fear more prominence in your mind. Mention it, then move on to praise, worship, and thankfulness to re-direct our focus on those things.
"...I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear. Life is more than food and the body more than clothes. Consider the ravens: They do not sow or reap, they have no storeroom or barn; yet God feeds them. And how much more valuable you are than birds! Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest? Consider how the lilies grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you, not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, how much more will he clothe you, O you of little faith! And do not set your heart on what you will eat or drink; do not worry about it. For the pagan world runs after all such things, and your Father knows that you need them. But seek his Kingdom and these things will be given to you as well."
God cares about us and will meet our needs. Period. We need to truly believe this and free our minds to focus on Him instead of these little things. I like how he says "do not set your heart" on these things. I think that is really the key. Our hearts are meant to be set on Jesus and nothing else. It is a scary position to be in sometimes. In a way, we are hardwired to focus on things like food, clothing, and other basic needs for this world/life. But God commands us to leave those things in His able hands so that we can focus on Him. When we do this, when we make this conscious decision to change our perspective and our focus, He will fill our hearts and minds with peace. That peace that we all desire, that is beyond our understanding.
This decision, I believe, is a daily one. Even one that must be made moment by moment. Like I said, we are hardwired to worry about certain things and must be very conscious in our efforts to push those thoughts aside and replace them with thoughts of Jesus. Perhaps memorizing this passage, or even one verse of it, will help. When thoughts of worry and fear come, recite this passage until the worry and fear are pushed out. Pray to God for help, but do not focus the words of your prayer on your worry or fear. That only gives that worry and fear more prominence in your mind. Mention it, then move on to praise, worship, and thankfulness to re-direct our focus on those things.
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Negative Thinking
I have been thinking lately about my attitude and it occurred to me that very often my attitude is what keeps me from living in the peace that God has for me. Here is a prayer I recently wrote for myself. I'm hoping that it will speak to you all, too, just as it did to me.
Lord, take away that part of me that is incessantly focused on disappointments (real or perceived), unmet needs, annoyances, inconveniences, unmet expectations, failures, unreached goals. These are self-centered and self-serving thoughts that create in me an attitude of discontentment and anger. They defeat me in my efforts to live like Christ. These thoughts do no good for anyone.
Jesus calls me to live in His presence and follow His will rather than my own. Negative and selfish thoughts like those above reflect the failure of my own plans and my reliance on myself and other humans to meet my needs. Instead, I should be bending my own plans, wants, and desires to an attitude of patience and reliance on the plans of God.
Living in peace depends at least in part on my letting go of my own plans, or at the very least holding my plans very loosely, so that I can enjoy God's presence in each moment and be open to what He has for me in each day. I cannot see His plan if I am narrowly focused on my own or upset because my own plans were destroyed by circumstances.
Lord, take away that part of me that is incessantly focused on disappointments (real or perceived), unmet needs, annoyances, inconveniences, unmet expectations, failures, unreached goals. These are self-centered and self-serving thoughts that create in me an attitude of discontentment and anger. They defeat me in my efforts to live like Christ. These thoughts do no good for anyone.
Jesus calls me to live in His presence and follow His will rather than my own. Negative and selfish thoughts like those above reflect the failure of my own plans and my reliance on myself and other humans to meet my needs. Instead, I should be bending my own plans, wants, and desires to an attitude of patience and reliance on the plans of God.
Living in peace depends at least in part on my letting go of my own plans, or at the very least holding my plans very loosely, so that I can enjoy God's presence in each moment and be open to what He has for me in each day. I cannot see His plan if I am narrowly focused on my own or upset because my own plans were destroyed by circumstances.
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
What is Peace?
What does peace really mean? To know how to get it, we must understand what it is. We must understand what we are looking for. According to Merriam-Webster Dictionary, peace means:
1. "a state of mutual harmony between people or groups;"
2. "freedom from any strife or dissension;"
3. "freedom of the mind from annoyance, distraction, anxiety, an obsession, etc.; tranquillity; serenity;" and/or
4. "a state or condition conducive to, proceeding from, or characterized by tranquillity."
I think Biblical peace refers to all of these definitions, but especially the third, the absence of distraction and anxiety. It is the absence of anything that would distract us from God or that would interrupt our focus on Him. As it said in Isaiah 26, the peace of God comes when our mind is steadfast and fixed on God.
Here are some more verses on peace that will hopefully define it further and encourage you regarding God's promise of peace to those who will claim it.
Romans 8:6 - The mind of sinful man is death, but the mind controlled by the Spirit is life and peace.
Isaiah 32:17 - The fruit of righteousness will be peace; the effect of righteousness will be quietness and confidence forever.
Isaiah 54:10 - Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed," says the LORD, who has compassion on you.
Psalm 29:11 - The Lord gives strength to his people; the LORD blesses his people with peace.
1. "a state of mutual harmony between people or groups;"
2. "freedom from any strife or dissension;"
3. "freedom of the mind from annoyance, distraction, anxiety, an obsession, etc.; tranquillity; serenity;" and/or
4. "a state or condition conducive to, proceeding from, or characterized by tranquillity."
I think Biblical peace refers to all of these definitions, but especially the third, the absence of distraction and anxiety. It is the absence of anything that would distract us from God or that would interrupt our focus on Him. As it said in Isaiah 26, the peace of God comes when our mind is steadfast and fixed on God.
Here are some more verses on peace that will hopefully define it further and encourage you regarding God's promise of peace to those who will claim it.
Romans 8:6 - The mind of sinful man is death, but the mind controlled by the Spirit is life and peace.
Isaiah 32:17 - The fruit of righteousness will be peace; the effect of righteousness will be quietness and confidence forever.
Isaiah 54:10 - Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed," says the LORD, who has compassion on you.
Psalm 29:11 - The Lord gives strength to his people; the LORD blesses his people with peace.
Thursday, May 27, 2010
The Path of Peace
It has been way too long since I've written a post and some of you may be wondering if I'd abandoned this project altogether. I am sorry! I let life get in the way and change my focus a little bit. Time flies by. But I am still excited about this project and the opportunity to learn and grow that it presents. So, let's get going again and start up with the next fruit - peace.
Peace is a wonderful fruit and an often elusive one. It always seems that there is something to worry about or keep our thoughts/minds in a state of unrest. This is the opposite of peace. The more we strive for peace, the harder it is to attain. A devotion I read recently deals with this very subject and really hit home for me. It is from Jesus Calling by Sarah Young:
"Do not search for security in the world you inhabit. You tend to make mental checklists of things you need to do in order to gain control of your life. If only you could check everything off your list, you could relax and be at peace. But the more you work to accomplish that goal, the more things crop up on your list. The harder you try, the more frustrated you become.
"There is a better way to find security in this life. Instead of scrutinizing your checklist, focus your attention on My Presence with you. This continual contact with Me will keep you in My Peace. Moreover, I will help you sort out what is important and what is not, what needs to be done now and what does not. Fix your eyes not on what is seen (your circumstances), but on what is unseen (My Presence). Isaiah 26:3."
Isaiah 26:3-4 says, "You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in You. Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord, is the Rock eternal." God promises to keep us in peace. Not only that, but "perfect peace." What we need to do is claim it by keeping our minds fixed on the Lord, trusting in Him in all circumstances and remembering at all times that it is the Lord who is our eternal Rock.
Peace is a wonderful fruit and an often elusive one. It always seems that there is something to worry about or keep our thoughts/minds in a state of unrest. This is the opposite of peace. The more we strive for peace, the harder it is to attain. A devotion I read recently deals with this very subject and really hit home for me. It is from Jesus Calling by Sarah Young:
"Do not search for security in the world you inhabit. You tend to make mental checklists of things you need to do in order to gain control of your life. If only you could check everything off your list, you could relax and be at peace. But the more you work to accomplish that goal, the more things crop up on your list. The harder you try, the more frustrated you become.
"There is a better way to find security in this life. Instead of scrutinizing your checklist, focus your attention on My Presence with you. This continual contact with Me will keep you in My Peace. Moreover, I will help you sort out what is important and what is not, what needs to be done now and what does not. Fix your eyes not on what is seen (your circumstances), but on what is unseen (My Presence). Isaiah 26:3."
Isaiah 26:3-4 says, "You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in You. Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord, the Lord, is the Rock eternal." God promises to keep us in peace. Not only that, but "perfect peace." What we need to do is claim it by keeping our minds fixed on the Lord, trusting in Him in all circumstances and remembering at all times that it is the Lord who is our eternal Rock.
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
What does Love look like?
It's been a while since we've posted anything but I found something in a book I'm reading that is good to think about. This is out of order but i'm going back to the subject of Love. Which I guess it's all about love, isn't it?
The following is a quote from "Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control" by Heather Forbes and B.Bryan Post. It's a really good book so far and it's about parenting children with past trauma. That trauma can be a lot of things from minor to major (adoption, frequent moving, abuse, neglect, medical trauma, etc.) but I think this book can be for anyone. Here they talk about loving your child:
"I have found one of the best ways to consider love is to understand that love is what we bring to the space that surrounds us. Love is not possessive or controlling. It simply exists in the present space and time. Any two people are capable of experiencing love at any given moment if they are able to put aside their fears and preconceived notions for what love is supposed to be. Love is being fully present in the moment.
To love a child is merely to be present with her, to not be thinking about work, chores, or the day's duties, but rather to be present, attuned, and in harmony with the child's needs and desires. Not that you will give in to every need, want, or desire, but you will open yourself up with the ability to be present to her without judgement or a need to change her. This is to love a child."
How often do we do this with each of our children? Or our spouses? Or our friends and family? Just think about your day and see how you can take time to be fully present. That means putting aside the stresses and the worries. I've started to be conscience of this as I'm reading this book. I'm also reading "Crazy Love" by Francis Chan. I highly recommend this book to everyone. We are doing it for small group and it has a dvd that goes with it for the group study. It's about the crazy love that God gives to us and what our response to that should be. You can google Francis Chan and find utube videos of him speaking. It's really good.
The challenge here for today is to to conscience of being fully present in the moment. In the end, how we've loved people is what is important, not our to-do list.
Amy
The following is a quote from "Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control" by Heather Forbes and B.Bryan Post. It's a really good book so far and it's about parenting children with past trauma. That trauma can be a lot of things from minor to major (adoption, frequent moving, abuse, neglect, medical trauma, etc.) but I think this book can be for anyone. Here they talk about loving your child:
"I have found one of the best ways to consider love is to understand that love is what we bring to the space that surrounds us. Love is not possessive or controlling. It simply exists in the present space and time. Any two people are capable of experiencing love at any given moment if they are able to put aside their fears and preconceived notions for what love is supposed to be. Love is being fully present in the moment.
To love a child is merely to be present with her, to not be thinking about work, chores, or the day's duties, but rather to be present, attuned, and in harmony with the child's needs and desires. Not that you will give in to every need, want, or desire, but you will open yourself up with the ability to be present to her without judgement or a need to change her. This is to love a child."
How often do we do this with each of our children? Or our spouses? Or our friends and family? Just think about your day and see how you can take time to be fully present. That means putting aside the stresses and the worries. I've started to be conscience of this as I'm reading this book. I'm also reading "Crazy Love" by Francis Chan. I highly recommend this book to everyone. We are doing it for small group and it has a dvd that goes with it for the group study. It's about the crazy love that God gives to us and what our response to that should be. You can google Francis Chan and find utube videos of him speaking. It's really good.
The challenge here for today is to to conscience of being fully present in the moment. In the end, how we've loved people is what is important, not our to-do list.
Amy
Friday, March 19, 2010
What Produces Joy?
We talked about the products of joy in the last entry. But what about the other side? What kinds of things result in joy? Is there any way we can develop joy in our lives? Joy only comes from God, but are there things we can do to help us experience the joy that God has given through His Spirit?
I think I talked before about slowing down. This is key, I think. In slowing down in our daily lives, we learn to appreciate the gifts that God has given us. We are better able to recognize the simple moments of joy that surround us all the time. And we can hear God's voice and direction more readily. Slowing down includes taking time to just sit and spend time with God. When we strengthen that relationship, we will be better able to experience all that God wants to give us, including true joy. Psalm 21:6, among other verses, states that the presence of the Lord brings joy. Spending time with God will bring us joy.
We can also learn to just take pleasure in things. Eating the good food God has provided, or just taking pleasure in the company of friends and family. In the Bible, references to joy are often linked to feasting and fellowship. God gives us pleasures so that we can learn and experience joy through them. So, let's not feel guilty about enjoying that which God has given us. I'm not talking about over-indulging or being gluttonous. That is certainly not what God intends and that is clear from Scripture, too. But when we can learn to enjoy the pleasures of life without giving the enjoyment of those pleasures the position of greatest importance, we will experience joy.
Seeing each day as a gift from God will also bring us joy. Each day is a gift. Each day of health for me and my family is a gift. Each day I can spend with those I love, or doing something I love to do, is a gift. Sometimes we need an attitude adjustment to recognize it, but if we discipline ourselves to start thinking this way, God promises to bring us joy.
Laugh. One of the products of joy that I mentioned in the last post is laughter. So, let's learn to laugh more often. This goes along with the enjoyment of life, I suppose. And isn't laughter truly a gift? If you haven't had a good belly laugh for awhile, try to remember how good it felt to just sit and laugh. Try to associate with people who bring laughter into your life. Those people are gifts from God who can help you to experience joy more fully. A few people in my life come to mind when I think of laughter and joy. My brother and sister are two of them. When we are all together, we can laugh like at no other time. Part of that is a lifetime of experiences together. But it always feels good to laugh with them.
I'm sure there are more things out there and we will talk about them in a later post, but for now, try to put some of these things in your life right now and see if it helps you to be more joyful. As always, let me know your thoughts, experiences, and progress!
I think I talked before about slowing down. This is key, I think. In slowing down in our daily lives, we learn to appreciate the gifts that God has given us. We are better able to recognize the simple moments of joy that surround us all the time. And we can hear God's voice and direction more readily. Slowing down includes taking time to just sit and spend time with God. When we strengthen that relationship, we will be better able to experience all that God wants to give us, including true joy. Psalm 21:6, among other verses, states that the presence of the Lord brings joy. Spending time with God will bring us joy.
We can also learn to just take pleasure in things. Eating the good food God has provided, or just taking pleasure in the company of friends and family. In the Bible, references to joy are often linked to feasting and fellowship. God gives us pleasures so that we can learn and experience joy through them. So, let's not feel guilty about enjoying that which God has given us. I'm not talking about over-indulging or being gluttonous. That is certainly not what God intends and that is clear from Scripture, too. But when we can learn to enjoy the pleasures of life without giving the enjoyment of those pleasures the position of greatest importance, we will experience joy.
Seeing each day as a gift from God will also bring us joy. Each day is a gift. Each day of health for me and my family is a gift. Each day I can spend with those I love, or doing something I love to do, is a gift. Sometimes we need an attitude adjustment to recognize it, but if we discipline ourselves to start thinking this way, God promises to bring us joy.
Laugh. One of the products of joy that I mentioned in the last post is laughter. So, let's learn to laugh more often. This goes along with the enjoyment of life, I suppose. And isn't laughter truly a gift? If you haven't had a good belly laugh for awhile, try to remember how good it felt to just sit and laugh. Try to associate with people who bring laughter into your life. Those people are gifts from God who can help you to experience joy more fully. A few people in my life come to mind when I think of laughter and joy. My brother and sister are two of them. When we are all together, we can laugh like at no other time. Part of that is a lifetime of experiences together. But it always feels good to laugh with them.
I'm sure there are more things out there and we will talk about them in a later post, but for now, try to put some of these things in your life right now and see if it helps you to be more joyful. As always, let me know your thoughts, experiences, and progress!
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